Monday, September 22, 2008

one year ahead

home after my iftar at hotel midah.. yummy... ada ketam goreng, bubur cha cha yg sedap... and ammar was happy eating the keropok udang that i was able to enjoy my eating time.. however, he was not in such good mood on the way home.. nangis2 in the car seat sampai muntah - a protest to car seat! hmmphhh.. i guess he's had enuff of sitting and strapped in.. but putting him to sleep is so much easier now.. after his last nursing, die golek2 kejap. put him in his cot.. and he'll be in his la la land mode.. about 10 mins after, he's ready to sleep.. pat him on the back.. wallaaaa.... tidok! syoknyerrrr

eventho i still have my maid for another year, i couldnt help to think about what will happen once she's gone back to her kampung.. a few options i have

1) hire another maid - looking at maybe cambodia or filipino maid
2) send ammar to nursery nearby that he seems to like.. and i like it too!
3) send ammar to my mom's house and pay the maid here extra to look after him. after all, he'll be 2 years plus.. not so difficult to handle.. i hope!

i kinda like the nursery option but that means i have to do all the housework plus cook etc etc... aiyo... altho it can be done.. but for sure la im going to be flat!!! plus, difficult la to have dating2 time with hubby if no maid to jaga ammar at home on our date nights.. mana nak ada baby sitter kat sini! hmmphh...

cambodian maids apparently have problem with communication cause they do not speak english.. heard that filipino maids are quite good. speak english and can tach the kids.. but costs a freaking 1,000 per month!!! how laaa...??? if ive got expat pay, boleh la consider..

hmmphhh... any moms out there with any suggestion???


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